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Gate/Key/Hexagram 44: Coming to Meet and Karmic Relationships

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Written by Futurist, Executive Coach, Consultant, & Speaker, Ashley Mosaic, who is a 1/4 Generator with Cross of Maya 4 and conscious sun in Source Code 61.

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Official Name in Human Design: Coming to Meet or The Gate of Alertness

Purpose: Learn from the past to foster unity and create connections

Human Design definition: The success of any interaction is based on the absence of any preconditions. Instinctive memory and alertness that can manage and mold the collective.

Core theme: Fear of the past

Body graph location: Spleen center, connecting to Ego via Gate 26

Grounding energy:

Tropical astrology sign: Scorpio

Gene Keys: Interference -> Teamwork -> Synarchy

I Ching: Coming to Meet (Liaison)

Date of solar transit (vary by 1 to 2 days): November 1 - November 6

The 44th Gate, Key, and Hexagram resonates with the energy of relationships, the challenge of interference, and the evolutionary journey towards effective teamwork and collective harmony.


Defined in Chart: Individuals with Gate 44 defined in their charts may have a keen sense of awareness about past patterns in relationships. They are often adept at recognizing repeating themes and can use this insight to inform current interactions.

Sun Transit: When the sun transits through Gate 44, it brings a collective focus on examining past relationship dynamics and their impact on current connections. It's a time for introspection and learning from past experiences to improve present and future relationships.


The high-frequency expression of this energy is sensing patterns and using instrictive memory and alertness to break harmful patterns and foster connections.

The low-frequency expression of this energy is fear of the past and using past mistakes as reason to not move forward.  

My personal experience:


Human Design Gate 44: Navigating the Intricacies of Relationships and Teamwork

From Karmic Encounters to the Emergence of Collective Harmony


Quarter of Duality, the Realm of Jupiter

Theme: Purpose fulfilled through Bonding

Mystical Theme: Measure for Measure

Gate 28 < Gate 44 > Gate 1


This Gate is part of the Channel of Surrender, A Design of a Transmitter, linking the Splenic Center (Gate 44) with the Ego Center (Gate 26). Gate 44 is part of the Tribal (Ego) Circuit with the keynote of support.

Gate 44 is the gate of memory; it remembers the patterns for living that have successfully provided for our material needs. This memory is an integral and consistently trustworthy part of our survival intelligence as a species. We are instinctually alert in every moment for the correct spontaneous relationship or interaction that can move a potential to the level of a possibility. What we remember or transmit shapes the Tribes' material orientation, and eventually strengthens its ego presence and power in the world. We control the way Gate 26 is going to act in terms of selling, defending or fighting for the tribe. This is where tribal propaganda can be found. We help the Tribe to allay its fears of the past by remembering that a starving child is not a healthy child, and that material security and health go hand in hand. The Spleen is not a motor, so once our awareness is recognized and valued by the Tribe, we will look to the willpower of Gate 26 to act on it. In this way, whatever transformation we instinctively know the Tribe needs to ensure its survival becomes a reality.

Without Gate 26 we are prone to unnecessarily exaggerate by over-committing and making promises we cannot keep. What we fear most is that baggage from the past might catch up with us.



Gene Key 44: Transforming Relationships through Collaborative Harmony

The Evolution from Karmic Patterns to Collective Unity


“Synarchy means we all lead together! It doesn’t mean that we’re all the same. Not at all. It means that our uniqueness has a place within the orchestra, and instead of just playing a nice tune and being oblivious to all those around us, we begin to play in harmony with everyone.”

– Richard Rudd, 64 Ways


Gene Key 44, known as Karmic Relationships, offers a transformative journey from the Shadow of Interference to the Siddhi of Synarchy, with the crucial intermediary being the Gift of Teamwork. This journey is about transcending individual and collective karmic patterns to achieve a state of harmonious collaboration and unity.

Shadow - Interference:

  • The Shadow of Interference in Gene Key 44 represents the disruptive patterns that emerge in relationships, often rooted in past experiences or external influences. This shadow can manifest as repeated cycles of conflict, miscommunication, or misunderstanding, hindering the development of healthy, supportive relationships.
  • Personal Application: Identify and address the patterns of interference in your relationships. Seek to understand the underlying causes, whether they stem from personal history, external influences, or deep-seated fears. Strive to break these cycles by fostering open communication and mutual understanding.

Gift - Teamwork:

  • The Gift of Teamwork involves recognizing the value of cooperative efforts and the strength found in diverse perspectives and skills. It’s about moving beyond individual agendas to embrace the power of working together towards a common goal, fostering a spirit of unity and mutual support.
  • Personal Application: Cultivate a mindset of collaboration and cooperation in your interactions. Embrace teamwork in both personal and professional settings, valuing each individual's contribution and working synergistically to achieve shared objectives. Recognize that through effective teamwork, relationships can become more supportive, productive, and enriching.

Siddhi - Synarchy:

  • The Siddhi of Synarchy represents the highest manifestation of Gene Key 44. It signifies a state of collective governance and harmony, where individuals work together seamlessly for the greater good. In this state, synarchy transcends traditional hierarchies and power dynamics, reflecting a cooperative model where each person’s contribution is valued and integral to the whole.
  • Personal Application: Aspire to contribute to and foster environments of synarchy. Embrace the concept of collective governance and unity, where decisions and actions are taken for the benefit of the whole rather than individual gain. Recognize the potential for a harmonious and balanced society built on the principles of cooperation and shared responsibility.


Gene Key 44 invites us on a journey from the turbulence of karmic interference in relationships, through the empowering embrace of teamwork, to the elevated state of synarchy. This path encourages us to transform our relational dynamics, moving from conflict and disruption to a state of collaborative harmony and unity, reflecting the potential for a more interconnected and cooperative world.


I Ching Hexagram 44: Navigating the Power of Influence

Hexagram 44: Coming to Meet


Hope is like a flower forced to grow without sunlight.

Most of the shadows of this life are caused by
standing in one’s own sunshine. – Emerson


In the I Ching, Hexagram 44, often referred to as "Coming to Meet," symbolizes the encounter with powerful forces or influences and the need for cautiousness and discernment in such interactions.

1. Understanding the Nature of Influence:

  • This hexagram highlights the importance of recognizing and understanding the nature of the influences that come into your life. It suggests being alert to the potential impact of these influences, whether positive or negative.
  • Personal Application: Stay vigilant and discerning about the people and situations you encounter. Assess their influence on your life, being cautious about allowing negative or overpowering forces to take hold.

2. The Importance of Proper Conduct:

  • Hexagram 44 also emphasizes the need for maintaining proper conduct and integrity in the face of external influences. It advises holding to your principles and values to navigate these encounters successfully.
  • Personal Application: Uphold your ethical standards and personal values, especially when faced with strong external influences. Let your integrity guide your decisions and interactions, ensuring that they align with your true self.

3. Balancing Openness with Caution:

  • The hexagram conveys the balance between being open to new encounters and exercising caution. It encourages welcoming new opportunities and relationships while being mindful of their potential implications.
  • Personal Application: Approach new experiences and connections with an open mind, but also with a sense of caution. Balance openness with a healthy awareness of the possible outcomes of these interactions.


Hexagram 44 from the I Ching teaches the art of discernment in the face of powerful influences. It reminds us of the importance of vigilance, integrity, and balanced conduct when encountering new forces, ensuring that our interactions and decisions reflect our true principles and contribute positively to our journey.

Ways to Apply this Energy

By actively integrating the energy of Gate/Key/Hexagram 44, "Coming to Meet," into your life, you can become a unifier, a facilitator of harmony, and a catalyst for meaningful connections and dialogue in your personal and collective experiences. Here are some practical ways to integrate this energy into your daily life:

  1. Embrace Communication: Encourage open and honest communication in your personal and professional relationships. Listen actively, express yourself clearly, and be willing to meet others halfway in conversations.

  2. Foster Unity: Actively seek opportunities to foster unity and collaboration in your community or workplace. Organize events, projects, or initiatives that bring people together for a common purpose.

  3. Build Bridges: Identify situations where there may be misunderstandings or conflicts and work towards building bridges of understanding. Promote dialogue and reconciliation where needed.

  4. Empathize and Understand: Practice empathy by putting yourself in others' shoes. Seek to understand their perspectives, motivations, and needs. This can lead to more compassionate and effective interactions.

  5. Network and Connect: Expand your social and professional networks by actively seeking out opportunities to meet new people. Attend events, conferences, or gatherings that align with your interests and values.

  6. Lead by Example: As you apply the energy of "Coming to Meet" in your life, others may be inspired to do the same. Be a role model for open-mindedness, collaboration, and unity.

  7. Cultivate Respect: Foster an atmosphere of respect and mutual appreciation in your relationships. Recognize the inherent worth and dignity of each individual you encounter.

  8. Resolve Differences: Address conflicts and differences constructively. Use communication and empathy to find common ground and resolve issues amicably.

  9. Promote Inclusivity: Advocate for inclusivity and diversity in various aspects of life, whether it's in your workplace, community, or social circles. Create environments that celebrate differences.

  10. Seek Common Goals: Identify common goals and shared objectives with others, and work together to achieve them. This can strengthen bonds and lead to greater collective accomplishments.

The Collective Resonance

In our collective experience, Gate 44 mirrors the quest for understanding and unity. We witness it in various ways:

  • Global Dialogues: The world today is marked by a hunger for dialogue and collaboration. From international diplomacy to grassroots movements, we see the power of inquiry and communication in shaping our shared future.

  • Empowered Truth-Seekers: In an age of information, more individuals are embracing their roles as truth-seekers, utilizing inquiry to discern fact from fiction and contribute to collective wisdom.

  • Technological Transformation: Gate 44's energy finds expression in our technological advancements, as we develop tools and platforms for global conversations and knowledge-sharing.

Integrating and Utilizing this Energy

  • Learning from Past Relationships: Use insights from past relationships to inform your current interactions. Recognize repeating patterns and work towards transforming them for more positive outcomes.
  • Fostering Effective Collaboration: Embrace the power of teamwork in your personal and professional relationships. Recognize that collaborative efforts can lead to greater achievements and more fulfilling connections.
  • Building Harmonious Communities: Strive to contribute to the creation of synarchic communities, where cooperation and collective well-being are prioritized. Recognize your role in fostering a community that thrives on harmonious and collaborative relationships.


Gate 44, Key 44, and Hexagram 44 collectively teach us about the importance of understanding past patterns in relationships, the power of teamwork, and the journey towards creating harmonious communities through collective effort. By understanding and applying these principles, we can navigate the complexities of relationships with greater insight and contribute to the formation of collaborative and harmonious communities.

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